Saturday, March 31, 2012

Saturday, March 3rd - Should've been a day of pure CelEbRatIoN

At the end of 2011 there was some sad news of a suicide of Brandon Michael Vance, then within days a terrible car accident right in front of LP of a brand new Sophomore driver, Janelle Read who was in critical care. Then days after this accident, another suicide of a young woman, Micah Watkins (yes, Don & Peggy Watkins daughter from Alpine- Mike worked for Don for years & years back when we were first married.) Then at the end of January a accidental drug overdose of Jacob Randall. This has been a rough couple of months for the youth at Lone Peak High School.
Brandon Michael Vance, Micah Watkins and Jacob Randall
  
Then on the morning of Saturday, March 3rd 2012 we were sitting around doing the normal, getting ready for soccer practice, going to futsal, doing chores when I got on Facebook and saw that Desi Guerreo, a friend of Tanner's had posted a pic of a really bad car accident at the base of Suncrest Road on the Highland side. Then others started to comment on her fb post that the "little white toyota truck" was "Kirsten King's". You will know this name because it is the CUTE young women that asked Tanner to his FIRST dance- Sadie Hawkin's back in October.
 
This day just happened to be the same day of when Lone Peak HS Basketball team was going to play at the Maverick Center in SLC for the STATE Title. Kids were headed over to the school to ride the buses up, or packing in the cars to head up to the game. But with this tragic news, life was changing dramatically for one family, the King's.

These next few paragraph's are taken from Kirsten's Caringbridge page.

"Kirsten was in a serious accident on the morning of Saturday, March 3, just a mile away from home. While the details remain unclear at this point, life changed in an instant for that sweet, vibrant, sassy, 16 year old girl.

Here is what is known: The full force of the impact hit the driver's side, leaving her with severe injuries, some of which were life-threatening. Both bones were broken in her lower left leg, the left side of her pelvis is shattered, her right lung collapsed, and she sustained a major brain injury. You can check her current status at CaringBridge."

As the news got around, it was difficult to wait to hear any updates, and Tanner wasn't getting much from friends at school, then finally, they the family starting posting info on "Caringbridge" a website that is a place for families to make journal entries, share information, photos, etc. with family, friends & loved ones.

This is where I've been able to keep up to date on the progress of Kirsten. But I would like to add here a few personal entries from Caringbridge "guestbook" that will help you to feel & to remember the POWER of the gospel and the testimonies that have been borne during this trial & challenge. May we all learn, grow and become stronger because of what we see others go through or what we, ourselves go through- Here are a few entries that have touched me & I have shared with some of you, and hope they touch all those who hear or read these words.
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This is Kirsten's Bishop-  

Tuesday, March 6, 2012 10:46 AM
I am struggling holding the tears back as I type.  Kirsten you are such a sweet young lady.  You keep fighting for all those that love you.  You can do it!  

I simply want to testify of God's love for his children.  For two years during Dec-March I coach my daughter's 9 year old soccer team at an indoor facility in Salt Lake every Saturday at 730 am.  I always come home around 10:30 am and pass Smith's, but my wife (Christy) wanted me to stop off at 123rd South and go to Einstein's.  I decided to go over sun crest after.  Which I NEVER do.  

As I came down the hill I saw the Jeep and a white truck.  I knew it was bad.  I didn't see anyone in the white truck so I jumped up on top of the Jeep that turned on it's side and started to help...

I keep thinking where is that white truck driver?  I thought maybe he/she was ejected.  As I came to the truck I saw a young person pinned by the car door that had been crushed.  I immediately noticed a large bleeding gash on the back of her head.  I took my jacket off and placed it on the wound to try and stop the bleeding.

I want to testify that the Spirit whispered to me this was one of my Young Women...I moved her hair from her face and tears filled my eyes as I realized it was Kirsten.  I called out to her, "Kirsten you are a strong young woman.  You are a daughter of God and he loves you....you are going to be okay....".  I called 911 and Cathy.  Brother Wells and I were able to administer a blessing....

I am very respectful of every persons belief system.  However, I testify with directness that God lives and that he places us in one another's lives to LOVE and SERVE one another.

Be strong Cathy, Jeff and family!  We love you.  We are praying and fasting for you all.

Bishop Sean K. Brown
    
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Here is a guestbook sign in from the mother of Janelle Read, the young woman who I mentioned above that was also in a major car accident in front of Lone Peak HS.

Tuesday, March 6, 2012 8:01 PM
 My name is Stacy Read and our 16 yr old daughter was in a car accident on Jan 9th in front of Lone Peak High Heavenly Father placed four men ( our heros) there at her accident. Just as Heavenly Father placed your Bishop there too. Complete strangers to us, as we moved her from Oregon 2 yrs ago and have no family and really no friends. Our new ward has been amazing as has all of our nieghbors and friend back in  Oregon.  You have  such a great family of support and I know your ward is wrapping your family  up as well, with food , support, helps, prayers ect..

. She was life flighted to IMC where they operated on her bladder asap, as it had burst and was bleeding , had 3 skull fractrues,  and 7 pelvic fractures with bones that were crushed. Bleeding on her brain, the blood clots too. With in a few days her brain calmed down to where they could concentrate on her pelvis. 13 hr pelvic surgery and now on her 2nd month of recovery, she is able to use crutches a little.  Its been a long road with a lot longer to go ,but the outcome looks good.
I know that our Heavenly Father lives and answers our prayers!! He will answer your friends and families prayers too! Our hearts go to you and your family, we are praying for you and plan on fasting on Friday for you!!. Heavenly Father placed your bishop there to be there for you to make sure you got the blessings you needed. I am so looking forward to meeting you and getting to know you, as does Janelle.  We will keep in contact to see your progress and just letting you know how we care and hope for  the best!!  Stacy and Janelle Read

Stacy Read

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This is a friend of the grandparents of the King's with well wishes-

Monday, March 12, 2012 4:45 PM
Miracles do happen! I've known Marti for over 40 years. I have had miracles in my life. I will share one...briefly. I would share the whole story, which is very inspiring, but time doesn't permit it at the moment.
On April 13th, 2004, I received a phone call that my oldest son was in a motorcycle accident. Multiple skull fractures (yes, he was wearing a helmet), broken neck, three broken ribs, collapsed lung, shattered kneecap and ankle, and road rash over 80% of his body. The EMT's called the coroner. =( Then realized he was trying to breathe. They took him to the hospital where he was given very poor prognosis...no chance of life. When he made it the first 24 hours, they said he would be a vegetable. They had him in a drug induced coma for 10 days. By mid-August he was back to work. His recovery was, to say the least, incredible and a miracle. God hears our prayers. He knows our needs.
I have read your last entry. Accepting His will is not easy. BUT he knows what needs to happen. My prayers and thoughts are with you. She is beautiful and in the Lords hands. God bless you as you and your family goes through this very agonizing time.
joleen claessens

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There are MANY touching and Beautiful, loving journal entries & guest sign in's- I want to add one that I wrote and the response I got.


Wednesday, March 28, 2012 9:48 AM
Dearest King Family,

My son, Tanner was asked by your sweet daughter to LP Sadie Hawkins dance back in October. We had just finished a day of watching General Conference and were just ending the day with family prayers when a knock came to our door. My youngest daughter ran to get the door and saw no one there, but a HUGE hot pink sign & a 2 liter bottle of Grape Soda asking my son to the dance. Tanner came in carrying the sign and the soda with a HUGE smile on his face. Letting us know it was from your sweet Kirsten (King). A few days later when my son told me how he answered her back, I was, let's just say embarrassed. He answered her back by spreading green peas all over your front porch with a note that read something like, "I was so excited you asked me to the dance, I "pea'd" a little." Oh, well I have tried to teach our kids better but Tanner seemed to think "Kirsten would get a KICK our of it!" My concern was "what would her parents THINK of my son!" I'm glad to know she has a great sense of humor & grateful to know my son is friends with such an AMAZING young woman.

After hearing about her accident my son came to me & shared with me that he "had just spoken with her last night" the feelings, I'm sure that you all have felt. This has been a challenging time for the youth at Lone Peak with all the things they have had to endure. My prayer for you and for the other families that have had to "endure" please let me reassure you that there are MANY, many that you may not even know (like us) that are praying daily for the past 3+ weeks, and fasting for Kirsten, the youth, & the families who have been affected by the different tragedies.

My family and I have been blessed to know of Kirsten & her STRENGTH, been able to be apart of the prayers, fasting and the testimonies that have been borne here. Even though we've never met Kirsten she has been a household name in our home these past few weeks. May you and your family continue to be blessed with the spirit of the Comforter and KNOW Kirsten is a beloved daughter of God and he is aware of all the prayers that have been born on her behalf. I hope and pray that this coming weekend of Conference might give you an added sense of strength and encouragement that you may need.
Our prayers and love to you & your family,
The Gillett Family                 
Brooke Gillett


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Wednesday, March 28, 2012 2:03 PM
...Thank You Sister Gillett. The pea's scored high on the crafty humor scale. Be glad it was not your son that re-enacted a bloody (ketchup) crime scene out front to express his delight on a different occasion, funny, but disturbing :)  I just read aloud your loving note to Kirsten and will continue to share it and others with her each day.      
jeff king

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Now I would like to add the most recent journal entries from Kirsten's parents-

Friday, March 30, 2012 8:58 PM, MDT
Day 28
After a busy day today of trying to take care of many things at home left to their own I,m back w Kirst tonight. She looks pretty tired right now but was shedding a few tears while we read from the guest book a minute ago. She has been doing that often the last few days, it sounds sad but it is wonderful that she does when being worked with. It shows that her emotions are awakening!!! (I think she is still reacting to the news that the mexi mustache mobile is toast): Her mom informed me that the Dr's today were pleased that when being asked (yelled at!!) she will squeeze her fingers more distinctly and move her thumb!!! She will also blink tightly for her mom and had tears for her today. I HAVE NO DOUBT SHE IS FIGHTING TO COME BACK!  She did well in OT/PT today and they even stood her up?!?!?!? I'm bringing her new long board for tomorrows work out! Ok, maybe save that for next week. In actuality I kinda don't want any of my kids to ever skateboard, ride a bike, chew gum or leave the house ever, ever again!!!!  She is doing better in her fight to over come the pneumonia and urinary tract infection. Last night I was able to help her nurse change her bedding out, I was humbled to give service to my grown up baby girl who can not do for herself... where's my cord my battery's dead!!!!!!!!!   
Friday, March 30, 2012 11:53 PM, MDT
...ok, somehow found the laptop cord buried under back seat full of dirty clothes, soccer equipment and sleeping bags. Kiki has had a bath & her Respiratory Therapy for tonight while I was gone. She is now sleeping w a blanket over her for the first time because her core temp has been so stable today. Her vitals are the best I've seen in weeks BP 78 HR 107 and 100% blood Oxy. She endures a shot in the stomach several times a day for both blood thinner meds and insulin to help w blood sugar issue. She really is a tough and amazing kid!!!  Looking out the window tonight off at the light of down town SLC, hoping all those who will inspire and reprove us tomorrow are resting easy tonight.

 28 days ago tonight I was worried about having enough time to prepare for my youngest child, Jaymison's baptism day activities. Now that all seems like forever ago. And in the midst of that day I got a call from Cathy, that as a parent you sometimes consider, but quickly push to the back of your thoughts. It did really happen. I am grateful that when it did come and Cathy's panic words not connecting well in my head, Kirsten, Critical, Pinned in the wreckage, Lost alot of blood, Life Flight, Get straight to the Hospital. The only thing I remember saying back to her was, Cathy, it's gonna be OK. And by that same Comforter, we have since then, had so many others repeat to us, We know it,s gonna be OK.
John 14:18 I will not leave you comfortless: I will come to you.

John 16:13 Howbeit when he, the spirit of truth, is come, he will guide you into ALL truth: for he shall not speak of himself; but whatsoever he shall hear, that shall he speak: and he will shew you things to come.  

Have a great and blessed weekend.

~Dad 


Saturday, March 31, 2012 12:06 PM, MDT
just a quick note this morning, Kiki had a good night resting well and vitals stayed solid. She has not been as responsive this morning but we get little bits of acknowledgement from her. We showed her herself on the iphone camera during her range of motion workout. Her eyes were wide open and she shed tears. We listened to 1st conference session together. I'm excited to see what response we can get from her after she has OT/PT today!!!

~Dad

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Very touching and INSPIRING journal entries, that I have been blessed to be able to read, be inspired by, fast for and hopefully use to make ME better throughout MY journey and my family's. For the past 2 Fast Sunday's we have been blessed to be a part of the fast, and her name is a daily word being used in our home and prayed for. 
 

After reading this, this morning I came across some more information about Kirsten & a 5K race Fundraiser they have put together, in her honor to help the family with raising medical bills- Saturday, May 19th at 8 am.


 

 We may not KNOW you Kirsten, but we LOVE YOU and your family-


 



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